So today I was watching 19 kids & counting about the Duggar family. I think I’ve watched shows about them since they’ve first been on TV. I’ve seen so much negative talk about the fact that they continue to have children when they already have so many. My thought is this if you can fully support that many children on your own, they are happy & healthy and you have the patience of a saint then go for it.

Now me? Kidlet pushes the boundaries of my patience but she is a preteen. I would love to have another child someday but, unlike the Duggars I’m not going to just leave that decision in god’s hands. For me timing and financial stability are crucial keys to having another baby and for the next few years at least I don’t see myself in a position to have another one … or maybe more than that. So what do you think?