Ok, so I must admit that I have some lapses in morals involving men .. namely their relationship status doesn’t affect what I do generally.

Now, I am in a serious moral bind. I have been friend with a person for years who is married with children and I am great friends with their spouse and love their children. They have issues … the person whom I have been friends with the longest is a lazy slob that is unrealistic about anything in life and can’t follow through with anything while getting everything handed to them. The spouse has been calling my friend out on all these issues hardcore. Which is honestly understandable.

What is my friends reaction? To now say that they want a divorce and have for along time, start flirting with people other than their spouse and I really think is contemplating cheating. I’ve seen the texts … I just don’t feel right about what is going on.

How can I do something without losing my friend?